Learn From The Best

Greetings All,

Be reminded of the notion that the circle that you keep always affects your thinking. Recently, a dear friend of mine passed away. Mrs. Jean was 83 and one of the wisest people I’ve ever met. Throughout the many years of us training together, I would take time to write down what she was trying to teach me and certain things that she said. I would also write down what types of things I needed to ponder based off of a discussion that we were having. Below is a small sample of some of the things that I wrote down and reflected on. I sincerely hope that these words inspire and encourage you to be your best. These are some of the thoughts and principles that my dear friend impressed upon me.

Don’t ever stop and think about working hard, just do it. If you think about it, you will talk yourself out of it.

Make sure your friends are ok, at least try.

Love your family completely.

It is selfish to ask for help if you don’t need it.

Secrets don’t make friends.

Don’t beat around the bush with your decision making. However, stick to what you decided to do only if that’s still the obvious right way to go.

Look for moments to laugh.

Cry when necessary.

If somebody is being mean then do something.

Give, Give, Give....Publicly and Privately

Being on time almost always benefits you.

Why not enjoy life?

Be consistent in your thinking but willing to listen.

Be more direct.

Make sure you understand how good you are at what you do.

Ask for help if you need it.

Be clear, it’s makes you appear less afraid. It helps your confidence.

Think before you act, then, think again.

Eat what you want.

Make sure you’ve got your finances all the way together.

Being cheap will almost always cost you in the long run.

When it’s time to party then party for real.

Believe in Jesus and remember where your blessings come from.

Be brave enough to work on your stereotypes.

Get Yours.

It’s ok to state what you don’t like and what you do not care for. 

Wit can win you the argument, control the conversation, or at the very minimum, diffuse the matter at hand.

Be comfortable at the church that you attend.

Speak up and don’t be afraid to tell people how you feel.

Apologize Sincerely.

Some things don’t have to be said.

Photo of the week:

“Ghanaian Waters Speak” by M.O.H.